Some guys dig in 'taken' ladies..
Why are there a**holes who moons over a girl even if she already has a husband and a child?
My own experience. At the first day of work, I had made a few friends whom includes this guy Dennis. He's nice but that's all there is in him to me. He tried to help me with my things when I was having a hard time walking down the stairs with sling-back pumps I was wearing. He escorts me when I wanted to go out of the building to buy something or relax. He helps me with the clients.. brings over anything I need at my station.. etc. And I found his attitude towards me a bit awkward.
He tells me everything about himself (like I'm one big slambook!). here are most of the crap(a one day with that a**hole):
a**hole: "what's your zodiac sign..?"
me: "taurus."
a**hole: "oh, mine's cancer.. I'm born June 22. 24." pause. "how old are you again..?"
me: "21."
a**hole:"oh, have you seen my drawings? brought them over. I took the test in TESDA.. wanna see them?"
me:"I draw. My husband draws."
a**hole: "oh, right." pause. looks at his workstation. holding up his hands up to the waist like he's holding a guitar and acts like he's strumming. " I miss playing my guitar.. I love to play guitar."
me: " My husband's a band member. Lead guitar."
a**hole: "ahh.."
LUNCH BREAK
a**hole: holding a cigarette."you smoke?"
me: "no. and I won't."
a**hole: "ok... where do you live?"
me: "parañaque."
a**hole: "wow great! Im from there too. lets ride home together."
me: oh god,help me with this man.. "err.. sure."
AFTER WORK, WAITING FOR THE OTHERS AT THE LOBBY..
a**hole: wraps his arms around my right arm the way a girl wraps hers with her bf.. "mind if I hold you like this? I'm used to holding my girl like this.."
me: well I'm no girl of yours.. lets him hold my arm but walks like no one's beside.. then acts as if searching for something in the shoulder bag.. "dear me, i have to text Kenny.. wait, could you please let go of my arm for a moment?"
a**hole: does nothing stupid for a couple of minutes while walking (and walking with my manager behind us.. and she definetly saw what Dennis was doing...)
me: stops texting, puts the phone back in the bag and walks with arms folded..
a**hole: "you act like a tomboy.. doesn't fit with what you're wearing.."
me: "well then let them think I'm tomboy, i dont mind.. dont have my husband with me to act girly anyway"
a**hole: "then let me be a subsitute.." grabs my hand and holds it. entangling his fingers with mine.argh!
me: pulls hands off his'. "you're way off your limits, sir."
AT THE BUS ON THE WAY HOME..
a**hole: "do you have two spare pennies there? I'm kinda short.. sorry. I thought we're just gonna ride an ordinary fared bus.."
me: a**hole! " sure, here." gives the 2 phP1 coins. Docks head in the bus' window and closes eyes.
a**hole: "you're tired. Here, put your head on my shoulder and sleep. I'll wake you up when we're there." Puts one arm over my shoulders and cues me to incline my head toward his shoulder.
me: "no thanks.. Im not really sleepy. I'll be ok here."
pause....
a**hole: " I miss my baby (talking about his ex). She's one liberated girl. But she's so sweet. We broke up because.. well its a long distance reltionship, you know what usually happens to that kind nowadays.. too bad, we didn't survive."
me: "aww, I'm sorry." I wanna add:But my husband and I, before, we were in a LDR for more than two years..
a**hole: "could I call you baby?"
me: O.o "huh?"
a**hole: "don't like it? babe?"
me: "no, I don't like pet names.. my husband calls me 'oist!' or 'oi!'"
a**hole: "'ling, perhaps?"
me: "no. and please, we're not even a couple."
a**hole: "ok.. can I walk you home? Let me meet your husband and baby."
me: : "they're not home. And I'll be fine. I can go home alone."
...walks off the bus and pauses,
"thanks for accompanying me..see you tommorow..bye."
a**hole : "bye babe.. take care"
Argh! The nerve of him. I don't like his style. Old school's first base, second base, third base and so on... He's such a dork. And after the first day at work, after they saw what Dennis was doing, they were asking me if he was my boyfriend. Hell, no! Not my type. I'm beggining to make a virtual wall between our stations. I make it a point that he sees me busy all the time. I've already told this to my husband and his bro.. Forewarned is forearmed wait till Dennis sees them. harharhar! XD
My own experience. At the first day of work, I had made a few friends whom includes this guy Dennis. He's nice but that's all there is in him to me. He tried to help me with my things when I was having a hard time walking down the stairs with sling-back pumps I was wearing. He escorts me when I wanted to go out of the building to buy something or relax. He helps me with the clients.. brings over anything I need at my station.. etc. And I found his attitude towards me a bit awkward.
He tells me everything about himself (like I'm one big slambook!). here are most of the crap(a one day with that a**hole):
a**hole: "what's your zodiac sign..?"
me: "taurus."
a**hole: "oh, mine's cancer.. I'm born June 22. 24." pause. "how old are you again..?"
me: "21."
a**hole:"oh, have you seen my drawings? brought them over. I took the test in TESDA.. wanna see them?"
me:"I draw. My husband draws."
a**hole: "oh, right." pause. looks at his workstation. holding up his hands up to the waist like he's holding a guitar and acts like he's strumming. " I miss playing my guitar.. I love to play guitar."
me: " My husband's a band member. Lead guitar."
a**hole: "ahh.."
LUNCH BREAK
a**hole: holding a cigarette."you smoke?"
me: "no. and I won't."
a**hole: "ok... where do you live?"
me: "parañaque."
a**hole: "wow great! Im from there too. lets ride home together."
me: oh god,help me with this man.. "err.. sure."
AFTER WORK, WAITING FOR THE OTHERS AT THE LOBBY..
a**hole: wraps his arms around my right arm the way a girl wraps hers with her bf.. "mind if I hold you like this? I'm used to holding my girl like this.."
me: well I'm no girl of yours..
a**hole: does nothing stupid for a couple of minutes while walking (and walking with my manager behind us.. and she definetly saw what Dennis was doing...)
me: stops texting, puts the phone back in the bag and walks with arms folded..
a**hole: "you act like a tomboy.. doesn't fit with what you're wearing.."
me: "well then let them think I'm tomboy, i dont mind.. dont have my husband with me to act girly anyway"
a**hole: "then let me be a subsitute.." grabs my hand and holds it. entangling his fingers with mine.argh!
me: pulls hands off his'. "you're way off your limits, sir."
AT THE BUS ON THE WAY HOME..
a**hole: "do you have two spare pennies there? I'm kinda short.. sorry. I thought we're just gonna ride an ordinary fared bus.."
me: a**hole! " sure, here." gives the 2 phP1 coins. Docks head in the bus' window and closes eyes.
a**hole: "you're tired. Here, put your head on my shoulder and sleep. I'll wake you up when we're there." Puts one arm over my shoulders and cues me to incline my head toward his shoulder.
me: "no thanks.. Im not really sleepy. I'll be ok here."
pause....
a**hole: " I miss my baby (talking about his ex). She's one liberated girl. But she's so sweet. We broke up because.. well its a long distance reltionship, you know what usually happens to that kind nowadays.. too bad, we didn't survive."
me: "aww, I'm sorry." I wanna add:But my husband and I, before, we were in a LDR for more than two years..
a**hole: "could I call you baby?"
me: O.o "huh?"
a**hole: "don't like it? babe?"
me: "no, I don't like pet names.. my husband calls me 'oist!' or 'oi!'"
a**hole: "'ling, perhaps?"
me: "no. and please, we're not even a couple."
a**hole: "ok.. can I walk you home? Let me meet your husband and baby."
me: : "they're not home. And I'll be fine. I can go home alone."
...walks off the bus and pauses,
"thanks for accompanying me..see you tommorow..bye."
a**hole : "bye babe.. take care"
Argh! The nerve of him. I don't like his style. Old school's first base, second base, third base and so on... He's such a dork. And after the first day at work, after they saw what Dennis was doing, they were asking me if he was my boyfriend. Hell, no! Not my type. I'm beggining to make a virtual wall between our stations. I make it a point that he sees me busy all the time. I've already told this to my husband and his bro.. Forewarned is forearmed wait till Dennis sees them. harharhar! XD
posted by Aerynne Silverbreeze at 3:29 PM
4 Comments:
Hurr. >_< The nerve!
Pffft!
He's an asshole. I'll say it straight for you ^_^
I think you should share this post here -> http://www.pinoyblog.com
Let the pinoy world know.
Oh, tell HR and the manager, that's Sexual Harassment already, hmm to the 100000th degree!
Grabe kapal ng muka! Kick his ass! XD Pero seriously it is sexual harassment na.
yeah, i know.. but I don't work there anymore :P
so, good luck to his new prospect na lang! XD
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